Hear Me! See Me! Value Me!
There are a variety of elements necessary for living an extraordinary life, but the quality of our human
connections is absolutely foundational to living a meaningful life.
• BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BOSS
• IMPROVED COLLABORATION WITH YOUR TEAM AND PEERS
• SMOOTHER INTERACTIONS WITH YOUR FAMILY
• GREATER RECOGNITION
• BETTER CHANCE OF BEING PROMOTED!
• REDUCED STRESS
• COOLER CONVERSATIONS WITH EVERYONE
What’s the One Thing in Your Way?
True for each and every person is the desire to be heard, seen and valued, yet fulfilling that desire can sometimes be challenging.
Driven By Fear
Inside of you, you know you have the knowledge and you know what to do, the problem is you have fear…fear that you will get fired, damage your reputation, lose face, be ‘blacklisted’, damage the relationship forever, won’t be liked, fear that you will be misunderstood, and fear that you will hurt the other person’s feelings.
Your reaction? You typically do one of two things, you will either avoid the conversation all together or you engage in a “heated debate” that you are attempting to disguise as a conversation. To further complicate the engagement and regardless of your reaction of choice, you rationalize, justify and reason with yourself why your choice is valid and substantiated. You’re not alone in this behavior. We all justify our avoidance by saying things like: ‘they won’t listen anyway’, nothing will change’, ‘everything just makes the situation worse’, and ‘it’s simply not worth the effort’. The impact? An internal battle. So, if in five minutes, five days or five weeks, you are still fighting that internal battle, it should become clear to you that what you really need to do is have the REAL conversation.
Acting Without the Right Preparation
Contrary to the options stated above, it may be that you do start the conversation, but you do so with the wrong person or without a solid definition of what you want as an outcome. This results in not guiding the conversation to the desired outcome, agreement or commitment.
Somewhere in the dialogue (or monologue), you end up getting triggered and spin the conversation in a hundred different directions that it was never intended to go, thus, not finishing the conversation and bringing it to resolution. Then it becomes a bundle of negative energy with damaging consequences and becomes evident as a nagging internal battle.
Learning to Engage: You Have the Power, We Can Help You Unlock It
The Challenge - unlike machines and programs, people don’t come with limitations, they have the capability to go anywhere and do anything. The best news is, you have control of the most important person involved in any relationship …yourself!
You can learn how to Think, Act and Talk to achieve extraordinary results. You can learn to face any conversation and know how to navigate within it, no matter what barriers are presented. The Payoff? Lifelong employability, stronger team collaboration, and much more.
All4Me™ will show you how to tap into, and take advantage of the many Think.Act.Talk™ Tools that are already within you. You will uncover your talent for knowing precisely how to behave by recognizing what triggers you and how to activate your de-trigger muscle. You’ll learn how to speak with confidence to achieve your desired outcomes. You will gain a heightened self-awareness, renewed confidence, the language you need to engage others and the power to collaborate, influence and persuade others to act.
You will discover new ways to manage your reactions, and a solid process to plan any conversation so it addresses the two cornerstones of human motivation. You will achieve your desired outcome of connecting with others, being heard, seen and valued, and to up the ante…respected.
All4Me™ will strengthen your relationships with your boss, peers, friends and fellow team members. It will allow you to profit from the relationships you already have and forge new connections. You WILL communicate for profit!
Want evidence?
Read Jason’s testimony:
I wanted to write a heartfelt thank you and kudos for your communications class. Your class has had a direct impact on my recent promotions. Learning through your class what my primary communication method is, and where my weaknesses are, I have been able to directly address them, and get around my individual fears. Additionally, I now know the most effective way to communicate with others who have a different communication style than I have, has been tremendously helpful.
Prior to your class I was extremely reticent to speak up or voice my opinion, especially in delivering bad news. Since your class I have achieved a new boldness, and blended that with effective communication skills, and have become a much more successful communicator, getting information out to my customers that they need to perform their jobs. When I started your class I was a front line analyst/administrator, 2 years later, I have received 3 promotions, and supervise 6 disparate groups as a Director. I use those same communication skills in managing my staff now. Your class has made a tremendous influence on my ability to shine as an employee, providing greater value to my customers and organization. Thank you very much for all of your effort, it has been a building block of my success. You are a true asset to me personally, professionally, and my company. Thank you.
Jason – Director of Operations, Critical Incidents & Change Management•BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BOSS
•IMPROVED COLLABORATION WITH YOUR TEAM AND PEERS
•SMOOTHER INTERACTIONS WITH YOUR FAMILY
•GREATER RECOGNITION
•BETTER CHANCE OF BEING PROMOTED!
•REDUCED STRESS
•COOLER CONVERSATIONS WITH EVERYONE
A weekend to remember……
Toolbox and Engagement Tools in hand for YOU to Profit!
All4Me™ Retreat Details
1. Take part in the Look in the MirrorTM Profile, and receive pre-reading preparation2. Attend a Two-day workshop – Polish your Tools and a get a host of new Engagement Tools; Toolbox, 12 Extraordinary Tools, Participant Manual, Personal Profile
3. Sustain your Learning through our Think.Act.TalkTM Tool Newsletter
4. Receive Six Months of Free Webinars (60 min. ea)
BONUS OFFER: After the completion of the program, and included, you will receive a 30 minute personal coaching session; ask any questions, discuss any topic, get personalized guidance.
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